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Perks & Pains of a Long-Haired Dad

By El Mitcherino2 min read
Perks & Pains of a Long-Haired Dad

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As a long-haired dad, I’ve worn many hats: customer service expert, a rock band vocalist, and a culinary maestro in the kitchen. But perhaps the most challenging and rewarding role I’ve taken on is that of a dad. Balancing parenting and maintaining my long locks has been a bumpy but fun ride, filled with unique struggles and moments of joy.

Tiny Fingers

From the moment my son first reached out and grabbed a fistful of my hair, I knew my years as a long-haired dad would be filled with laughter, a bit of pain and fun memories. As his tiny fingers wrapped around my locks, I couldn't help but laugh at the surprised expression on his face.
El Mitcherino's son yanking on his long hair in "Being Long-Haired Dad"
In the years that followed, my hair became a constant source of amusement and curiosity for my son. There were times when I would find him attempting to fashion my hair into various styles, or using it as a 'rope' during our playtime escapades.

‘Funny’ Painful

However, being a long-haired dad also comes with its challenges. From the time he decided to use my hair to 'anchor' me to a chair, to the occasions where a sudden painful yank of my hair would bring a serious conversation to a hard stop, my long hair has added a dose of humor to our daily life.
El Mitcherino with his son, who is pulling on dad's long hair, in "Being Long-Haired Dad"

Beyond the laughs and awkward moments, my long hair also opened opportunities for meaningful talks about individuality, acceptance, and respect for personal choices. I found that my unconventional appearance as a long-haired dad allowed me to teach my son important life lessons in a way that was relatable and real. 

Reflections Of A Long-Haired Dad

My journey as a long-haired dad has been anything but boring, filled with moments of joy, laughter, and learning. It's enriched my experience in fatherhood, and it's a path I wouldn't trade for anything.

Being a long-haired dad is a blessing. Mitch holding his son into the air.

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El Mitcherino

El Mitcherino from the Philippines is a customer service pro and full-time dad, both roles powered by patience and very little sleep. Ask his favorite customer, Robert Nye, and he’ll say Mitch actually reads, fixes issues, and skips the script.

At home, he handles snack deals, surprise messes, and vanished meals. A retired band frontman, his toughest crowd now is under four feet tall, and still louder.